A WEEK STATUS AS "WIFE"


Today, tanpa sedar, dah seminggu aku jadi wife kepada seseorg.
Hari yang sama, tepat jam 2.30 petang pada 17 Dis 2010, my ARMY dengan sekali lafaz,dalam akadnye, maka aku bergelar isteri yang sah (harini baru nak rase nangis)
aku berubah..YES...aku berubah
Menjadi kekasih kepada seseorang, menjadi pasangan seseorang....
And i'm glad.....
syukur
inilah dikatakan perubahan yang direstui olehNYA..
perubahan yang aku nantikan dan memang aku telah tempuhi.....
bile ape yang kite impikan, ape yang kite hitung, berakhir dengan baik....
akan ade satu perasaan riang dan tenang
dan pada rabu lepas, kunci rumah sewa pilihan kami berdua di Ketapang Villa menjadi reality..

alhamdullillah.... apa yang kami impikan jadi kenyataan....
walaupun aspek pemilihan rumah pernah menjadi isu, aku just harap my ARMy faham
atas kehendakku..... ~ bukan ade niat lain, anasir buruk and etc ~ cume keselesaan & ketenangan

ETIKA ASAS KE NEGARA ORANG

based on thru experience kah? he he... adelah skit2.....ni aku copyright salah satu topic dalam majalah EH! (yang AGAK laris dimuka malaysia ni)
It was a unforgotable experience during the trip. Aku paling climax ialah acara BERJALAN2...aktiviti travelling ni..mmg superb best.. sebab aku akan buat preparation selama yang mungkin dan ketika itulah aku baru rajin nak google...... pergi library ~ do readings, seeking,searching,googling... mmg BEST ahhhhh :)
so, lets read what are the DO things as travller yang ditulis oleh karyawan majalah EH! iaitu si jejaka KHAIRUL ABIDIN ISHAK......dan olahan... OLEH DIRIKU
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1. Menegur/ menyapa :
at least you ols belajarlah kata2 greeting from that country... macam "hi" or " hello" and "thank you"..tak payah susah, dalam lonely planet sure ade/ org kaunter airport negara tu bercakap/ atau blaja dari google.
2. Etika berpakaian
mcm certain country,kene tutup aurat (as respect), ade yang kene pakai formal time pegi makan kat dining table (europe esspecially), mcm clubbing pun ade negara yang ade etika pemakaian.... bukan asyik sexy je girls ~
3. Fikir sebelum cakap
haaa..ni mmg kengkadang jadi kat aku / sekawan serombongan ngan aku... sebab tu lah topik aku ni ETIKA, meanings,you have to obey the rules, easy kan? coz jenaka negara kite tak sama ngan negara lain... so ~ be careful.
4. andai anda merokok
contoh senang, ialah singapura. certain area je boleh merokok bebas..... its under authority NEGARA tu punye. So melibatkan polis. Tak nak kene FINE ~ better merokok kat legal place / smoking lounge
5. Bergambar
be ALERT traveller!!!!!! read the sign first.... mmg tak puas hati, tapi sure ade sebab WHY signage "CANNOT TAKE PHOTO" was pasted there............ maybe nak elak copy right, or barang tu ialah hak milik seseorang like a those beautiful painting.....SO, be alert pls
6. Etika makan
this i like and i learn the most....... mcm most europe restaurante, elakkan dari meminta additional ketchup ke, tambahan perisa lain, chef akan kluar n marah (i experienced it..malu siot)...and like INDIA country, ade cara appetizer and dessertnye... so, ikut je lah... ITS FUN actualy :)
7. Belajar bahasa dan budaya
this is the suppost u studied before enter that country..... tak kisahlah you travel 2 hari ke, sebulan ke, kene migrate 3 tahun ke, mesti belajar bahasa local situ... because, it make local people loved you~
bayangkan kite, kalau ade org japan ke, belajar bahsa kite "saya nak makan" ...
walaupun macam belit, tapi sure kite excited kan? nak berkawan ngan dier.... kan? kan? he he....

twenty eight

as i written on this blog, it means that something a "heart expression" or i'm in the mood of relax and 100% urge to write. ha ha... hours by hours count by the time, here now... my age turn to 28 YEARS 4days. What cani say ~ just "thank allah swt" coz give me such a good spirit and good health to be here, right now.
here my appreciatiation truth deeply thanks for what u guys did on my birthday eve and after...
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those luvly wisher to me:
my army, boy, kak marina, eva, nisa, zefrel, adik, along, abg deen,diana, fina, awie,nana,foxies,eppi,didi
those give me card :
along&adik, kak marina, bro suzairy, aswad
those presented me a cake:
my army&boy , adik&along, pizza house- abg deen, kak marina,suzairy and aswad, BSP clan
birthday gift :
kak marina
birthday meal treats :
along& adik - pizza hut , diana bv - social bangsar, kak marina
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i'm so happy becoz still have good buddy, sista & frens that remember me.....thanks you ols......really owe you guys for these.... even i had a few listed "gift" on my birthday, but i guess enough to have LOVE around. Because, that more precious and uncountable.... so, thank you to ALLAH swt for all this~
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i cant tell how much i miss.......dot dot

missing my mak............... love you so much :)